ATAQ: Should parents make their child stay involved in something if the parents believe the child wants to quit for the wrong reason? This one is tricky, so I’ll give my most diplomatic answer: It depends. Honestly, it does depend on a number of factors, such as age, child’s interest level going in, whether it involves a team that he’s already committed to, type of child, what else is going on … [Read more...]
How do I set boundaries with an inappropriate family member?
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ATAQ: When a family member has a mood or personality disorder, how do you sympathize while also addressing the pain they cause others? When is it appropriate to draw the line and say, "The way you are treating me is not ok?" Excellent question...it's very challenging when someone we feel love and concern for tests the limits of our compassion by being abusive. Actually, whether we love the … [Read more...]
How do I help my child stay focused in school?
August 15, 2015 by
ATAQ: How can I help my child be successful in school when he is feeling overwhelmed and having trouble staying on task? I’ll tackle this issue from both logistical and psychological angles. Logistically, there are specific things that can be done both at home and at school to help your child feel less overwhelmed and more in control. In the bigger psychological picture, those things will … [Read more...]
Why do some people create drama in their lives?
August 15, 2015 by
1st ATAQ: Why do some people create drama in their lives? Everyone has at least one in his or her life. That person who is just “drama” and creates it wherever he or she goes. We are all familiar with the phrase “drama queen,” but I’ve found that there are also plenty of “drama kings” out there. I use the word "dramamonger" to refer to anyone who deals in drama. So, what compels a person to … [Read more...]
